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5 Ways to Find Out If He's Really Into You

5 Ways to Find Out If He's Really Into You

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    Oct 07, 2016   Author : admin

You’ve been in the single market for quite a long time now but the tell-tale signs if a guy is really into you aren’t that clear to you yet. Sure, you’d happily go on a date with someone that interests you or if you are lucky enough, you could even go out with someone whom you find physically attractive. However, it’s not always easy being the girl in the dating game. How many signs and pointers should you consider before finally concluding if a guy is on the same page as you are after the first date? Here are 5 ways to spot if he’s really fallen under your spell:

That inexplicable giddy smile he has on his face during the whole time

You might not actually believe it but the way a person smiles might send you signals if he’s really into you. If he couldn’t contain his happiness that he keeps smiling the whole time you were together, the truth is this person might really fall for your charm and unique personality.  

You feel an undeniable connection with this person

No matter how mushy and cliche it may sound, connecting with someone is indeed a yardstick that determines if a person is really into you. Quoting a line from the movie Before Sunset: “I guess when you’re young, you just believe there’ll be many people with whom you’ll connect with. Later in life, you realize it only happens a few times.” For some people, a first meeting could really spark that connection, one that happens naturally and is never forced so your intuition will tell you if this one is for keeps.

His body language speaks so much during that first goodbye

Does he seem nervous and edgy as he walked you home? Maybe he’s thinking of giving you a good night kiss or a friendly hug but he’s afraid to jinx this first meeting away. Does he have that lingering look as you open that door to your house or does he immediately look away? Look for these signs and you’ll probably know if this guy is going to give a shot to your second date.

He gives you a call after that first fun date

Of course you had fun during that first date whether it was at a cinema, a fancy restaurant or a lovely walk in the park but you’re not quite sure if he’s really that into you. You don’t want to go ahead and think too much but most of the time we as women couldn’t help but overanalyze everything. One way to spot if a guy is into you is when he calls you the day after and tells you how much he enjoyed your first date. This is a sure indicator that tells if your date is into you.

He assures you that a second date is not far from happening

If a guy constantly brings up the topic of wanting to see you again, then you can easily conclude that he’s really into you. Who on earth would actually want a second date and spend another quality time with someone if he can’t see a potential relationship with the other person? Logic tells us that this person might probably be head over heels with you so if he calls and ask for a second date, give him the answer he longs to hear.

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